People say that.."there is no limit as to how long one may grieve the lost of a loved one".

This is so true no matter the lost. My wife has had numerous miscarriages, to many to mention. The pain I see her going through, even many years later, is still so fresh. She is a born mother and though we have three adult children who have gone on, my wife still has that feeling, to have more children and she always will. She never felt it necessary to seek counseling, even early on, only to discover years later that it would have helped. There is nothing quite like the loss of a child, and from our standpoint, to anyone, we would strongly recommend seeking some help, even if it is just to talk about it.